Let the hive mind of Engadget get that for you.
"I'm in the market for a new phone and money isn't a limitation. I'm also not partial to any particular US carrier, but here are some of the features I'd like to have: WiFi, GPS, good coverage in lots of places, push Gmail (a must!), physical keyboard (a must!), a touchscreen, decent battery life and a relatively slim body. And please, nothing that has a fruit logo on it. No offense to the fruit fans, though. Thanks!"
Ummm... I am a woman and frankly I think I will stick with my BlackBerry 8130 and pretty purple case (http://www.blackberrysource.com/store/catalog.asp?item=871) It is "feminine" and FUNCTIONAL.
PSM- you are right about it looking like a sanitary napkin, I am betting there wasn't a woman even in the room when this genius engineering team gathered to brainstorm. A woman would have caught that right away. Hey - if they see these comments they can hire one of us women to consult on their next bright idea for women :-)